Beyond Divorce: Elevate Your Future with Strategic Mortgage Choices

Jamie Ushko • December 19, 2023

Embarking on the journey of separation or divorce is undoubtedly one of life's most challenging moments, both emotionally and financially. None of us enters a marriage or home purchase anticipating the need to untangle the life we've woven together. Unfortunately, for 38% of married couples in Canada, this becomes a harsh reality.


Managing finances and determining the fate of the family home during this period can be overwhelming, adding a unique set of stressors to an already difficult situation. Each individual's circumstances vary, and obtaining a mortgage after or during a divorce is influenced by numerous factors. In this discussion, I'll outline some options and considerations to help you transition smoothly, always keeping in mind that these are mortgage-centric options that should be discussed with your legal advisor to ensure alignment with your overall strategy.


To Keep or To Sell

The decision to keep or sell the home is highly individual. In most divorces, one party wishes to retain the family home. If that person qualifies to take over the mortgage, it's a straightforward process. Here are a few routes to explore:


Option 1 - Remove Ex from Mortgage and Title: If you can manage the existing debt, this is the easiest path. You can do this with your current lender or switch to a new one, with the option of adding a co-signer if needed. Note that you won't be extracting funds from the property in this option, so any financial settlements or payouts to your ex would need to come from savings or alternative sources.


Option 2 - Refinancing: This process allows a complete restructuring of the mortgage. You can adjust parameters, such as pulling out funds to settle with your ex, extending the amortization to lower payments, and changing lenders or mortgage products. Keep in mind that during refinancing, a certain equity stake (usually 20%) must be retained in the property.


Option 3 - Spousal Buy-Out: If you lack the required equity for refinancing or need to pay out more than available, a spousal buy-out lets you purchase the house from your ex. This involves starting afresh, with existing equity as your down payment and the ability to borrow up to 95% of the home's market value.


Qualifying Considerations

Several factors impact your mortgage eligibility during a divorce. A signed separation or divorce agreement is essential, outlining spousal and child support, property distribution, and any financial settlements. Keep in mind that support payments, whether received or paid, affect your debt servicing ratios. If you're receiving support, it can be considered as part of your income.


RRSP Withdrawal and First Time Home Buyer Incentive: For the first property purchased post-divorce, you qualify for the First Time Home Buyers Plan RRSP withdrawal and the First Time Home Buyers Incentive. These programs offer financial advantages and support for your transition.


Moving On: Moving on, both figuratively and physically, is undoubtedly easier said than done. Surrounding yourself with the right resources—lawyers, counselors, realtors, and a reliable mortgage broker—will set you on the path to success as you transform your house back into a home. Remember, these strategies are tailored for your unique journey and should align with your broader legal and financial considerations.

Jamie Ushko

Mortgage Broker

Collateral vs. Standard Mortgage: Pros and Cons Explained

By Jamie Ushko • January 14, 2026
Mortgage Registration 101: What You Need to Know About Standard vs. Collateral Charges When you’re setting up a mortgage, it’s easy to focus on the rate and monthly payment—but what about how your mortgage is registered? Most borrowers don’t realize this, but there are two common ways your lender can register your mortgage: as a standard charge or a collateral charge . And that choice can affect your flexibility, future borrowing power, and even your ability to switch lenders. Let’s break down what each option means—without the legal jargon. What Is a Standard Charge Mortgage? Think of this as the “traditional” mortgage. With a standard charge, your lender registers exactly what you’ve borrowed on the property title. Nothing more. Nothing hidden. Just the principal amount of your mortgage. Here’s why that matters: When your mortgage term is up, you can usually switch to another lender easily —often without legal fees, as long as your terms stay the same. If you want to borrow more money down the line (for example, for renovations or debt consolidation), you’ll need to requalify and break your current mortgage , which can come with penalties and legal costs. It’s straightforward, transparent, and offers more freedom to shop around at renewal time. What Is a Collateral Charge Mortgage? This is a more flexible—but also more complex—type of mortgage registration. Instead of registering just the amount you borrow, a collateral charge mortgage registers for a higher amount , often up to 100%–125% of your home’s value . Why? To allow you to borrow additional funds in the future without redoing your mortgage. Here’s the upside: If your home’s value goes up or you need access to funds, a collateral charge mortgage may let you re-borrow more easily (if you qualify). It can bundle other credit products—like a line of credit or personal loan—into one master agreement. But there are trade-offs: You can’t switch lenders at renewal without hiring a lawyer and paying legal fees to discharge the mortgage. It may limit your ability to get a second mortgage with another lender because the original lender is registered for a higher amount than you actually owe. Which One Should You Choose? The answer depends on what matters more to you: flexibility in future borrowing , or freedom to shop around for better rates at renewal. Why Talk to a Mortgage Broker? This kind of decision shouldn’t be made by default—or by what a single lender offers. An independent mortgage professional can help you: Understand how your mortgage is registered (most people never ask!) Compare lenders that offer both options Make sure your mortgage aligns with your future goals—not just today’s needs We look at your full financial picture and explain the fine print so you can move forward with confidence—not surprises. Have questions? Let’s talk. Whether you’re renewing, refinancing, or buying for the first time, I’m here to help you make smart, informed choices about your mortgage. No pressure—just answers.

First-Time Buyer? Here’s How to Tell If You’re Ready

By Jamie Ushko • January 7, 2026
Ready to Buy Your First Home? Here’s How to Know for Sure Buying your first home is exciting—but it’s also a major financial decision. So how can you tell if you’re truly ready to take that leap into homeownership? Whether you’re confident or still unsure, these four signs are solid indicators that you’re on the right path: 1. You’ve Got Your Down Payment and Closing Costs in Place To purchase a home in Canada, you’ll need at least 5% of the purchase price as a down payment. In addition, plan for around 1.5% to 2% of the home’s value to cover closing costs like legal fees, insurance, and adjustments. If you’ve managed to save this on your own, that’s a great sign of financial discipline. If you're receiving help from a family member through a gifted down payment , that works too—as long as the paperwork is in order. Either way, having these funds ready shows you’re prepared for the upfront costs of homeownership. 2. Your Credit Profile Tells a Good Story Lenders want to know how you manage debt. Before they approve you for a mortgage, they’ll review your credit history. What they typically like to see: At least two active credit accounts (trade lines) , like a credit card or loan Each with a minimum limit of $2,000 Open and active for at least 2 years Even if your credit isn’t perfect, don’t panic. There may still be options, such as using a co-signer or working on a credit improvement plan with a mortgage expert. 3. Your Income Can Support Homeownership—Comfortably A steady income is essential, but not all income is treated equally. If you’re full-time and past probation , you’re in a strong position. If you’re self-employed, on contract, or rely on variable income like tips or commissions, you’ll generally need a two-year history to qualify. A general rule: housing costs (mortgage, taxes, utilities) should stay under 35% of your gross monthly income . That leaves plenty of room for other living expenses, savings, and—yes—some fun too. 4. You’ve Talked to a Mortgage Professional Let’s be real—there’s a lot of info out there about buying a home. Google searches and TikToks can only take you so far. If you're serious about buying, speaking with a mortgage professional is the most effective next step. Why? Because you'll: Get pre-approved (and know what price range you're working with) Understand your loan options and the qualification process Build a game plan that suits your timeline and financial goals The Bottom Line: Being “ready” to buy a home isn’t just about how much you want it—it’s about being financially prepared, credit-ready, and backed by expert advice. If you’re thinking about homeownership, let’s chat. I’d love to help you understand your options, crunch the numbers, and build a plan that gets you confidently across the finish line—keys in hand.